Trans women transition not to fetishise women. Not underage girls. Not adult women. Not lesbians. Not womanhood. Not fictional girls. Not top models. Not feminity. Trans women transition to relieve dysphoria.
Trans men transition not to fetishise men. Not underage men. Not adult men. Not gay men. Not manhood. Not fictional guys. Not bodybuilders. Not masculinity. Trans men transition to relieve dysphoria.
How to tell it’s getting bad again
- Physical pains (sore jaw, old injuries acting up)
- tired tired tired tired
- Can’t think/can’t stop thinking
- Sleeping too much/not enough
- Early waking
- Can’t make eye contact
- Picking or scratching at skin, nails, hair, etc
- Forgetful
- Sex repulsed or sex obsessed
- Lonely in crowds
- Unjustified assumptions (my friends all hate me)
- Too much/too little food
- Everything tastes bland?
- Headcolds/the flu out of nowhere
- Distancing yourself
- Spending too much time in bed
- Not showering/brushing teeth/brushing hair/taking care of your body
- Not able to do laundry
- Not turning in assignments
- Forgetting about assignments
- Zoning out
- Defensive
- Overly emotional/painfully numb
(via wishingto-disappear)